The Influential: Law and leadership: Divorce Lawyer Bryan Goldstein Obtains Top 10 Under 40 Recognition.

Divorce is painful, challenging and oftentimes it makes those who go through it feel lost and insecure. When your marriage is collapsing, you may feel like a failure, but you should never allow yourself to fall into negative thought patterns that rob you of your vital energy. Divorce, like most difficult things people go through in life, can be easier to navigate if you have someone by your side who you can trust.

But, how can individuals who are feeling overwhelmed make the right decision when retaining the services of an attorney to handle their Matrimonial and Family Law matters? Some of the main qualities that you should be looking for are diligence, empathy and attention to detail.

“Representation must be all encompassing and provide a source of security and peace of mind, regardless of the complexity of the matter at hand."-Goldstein states.

Goldstein has always been a high achiever; As a respected member of New York´s legal community he strives to procure his client´s peace of mind and is known to be a highly skilled negotiator, strategist, and litigator. One of Goldstein´s many accolades is the recent “Top 10 Under 40” recognition from the National Academy of Family Law Attorneys, which he received for his outstanding professional achievements.

Goldstein is also a devoted member of his local community, actively contributing to various causes he´s passionate about and inspiring others around him to do the same.

The ending of a marriage has deep psychological, financial and emotional implications and can throw even the most balanced individuals into a negative state of mind; Bryan Goldstein thrives in helping clients navigate through these complex and challenging matters.

Mr. Goldstein recently discussed with us some of the most challenging and rewarding aspects of his profession.

How does your practice help clients navigate challenging and often contentious scenarios?

Collaboration. I work collaboratively with my clients. We are a team. The closer we work together, the more united we are in understanding our positions and goals, which allows us to achieve those goals and navigate any scenario or challenge that comes our way. Maintaining calmness, logic, and rational thinking are also critical. Without it, emotion and reaction take over which will distract from the issues at hand. While emotion is usually an element, being able to manage those emotions and work with my clients is of utmost importance in order to focus on the ultimate objective.

The National Academy of Family Law Attorneys recently recognized you within their prestigious Top 10 Under 40 ranking, how does your work ethic reflect the values your clients expect from your practice?

I have always had a strong work ethic. Not just in completing my tasks as they need to be done, but going above and beyond the call of duty. When engaging in litigation, having all of the best evidence to support my client's arguments is vital. My clients and I do our due diligence before setting forth our position and our argument, in order to have the absolutely strongest possible stance without the ability for the opposing counsel to challenge. Being prepared is always important, but exercising due diligence in order to back up and support everything we are fighting for, puts the client in a better position to achieve their goals.


What are three things people need to keep in mind at all times during this emotionally exhausting time in their lives?

1. You have support. It will be okay. A good family law attorney will unburden you from stress; taking on the challenges, leading you through the process, educating you on the issues, and fighting for you until the end.

2. Keeping emotions in check is important and allows us to focus on the ultimate objective; A good attorney will be your teammate. The more united we are in understanding your position and goals, the more success you will have in achieving your desired outcome.

3. Seek representation. You may be nervous and scared because of uncertainty the first time meeting with a family law attorney. As the process goes on, those emotions will turn into relief, freedom and optimism, leading into the next chapter of your life.

I often see a drastic change in my clients, whether it be one month later, one year later or three years later, it is incredibly rewarding to be a part of this journey. In the beginning, when I tell clients they will eventually feel liberated, it's hard for them to imagine. When they later recall that initial conversation, they thank me for always having their back and getting them to where they needed to be.